
The Gift of Forgiveness
Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.—Colossians 3:13 (NIV)
Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you. I will praise you as long as I live, and in your name I will lift up my hands.—PSALM 63:3–4 NIV
Kendra’s father was one of her best friends. They often worked side by side—putting up Christmas lights, planting flowers in the garden, puttering in the basement.
When Dad suffered a stroke at age fifty-seven, Kendra was shocked. He’d always been in such good health. Now, confined to a hospital bed, struggling to remember familiar names and complete the simplest of tasks, he seemed so frail and weak. Kendra’s heart broke to see him this way.
She felt herself slipping into a deep depression, until something her mother said changed everything: “I don’t understand why this had to happen,” Mom said through tears. “I certainly don’t have any answers. But each morning when I wake up, I know I have a choice. Instead of asking myself why, I choose to praise.” Choose to praise.
It’s simple, yet profound. Praising God when life is going our way comes naturally. We are thankful, joyful, obedient—God has blessed us!
We can choose to accept defeat, becoming bitter and miserable; or we can entrust ourselves to the One who knows best, who loves us the very most. We can choose to praise Him.
Praising God doesn’t change our circumstances, but it does change our hearts. And that changes everything.
Heavenly Father, my reason for living, I praise You. There is none like You in heaven or on the earth. When my circumstances overwhelm me, when I am out of answers, when my situation seems hopeless…I choose to praise.

Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.—Colossians 3:13 (NIV)

For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways.—Psalm 91:11 (NIV)

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.—Romans 5:8 (NIV)