The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Blessed is he who has regard for the weak.—PSALM 41:1 (NIV)
“Here’s a schedule of people who will bring you dinners for the next two months,” the email read. “Receive and be strengthened.” With that note, my husband Lynn and I became care receivers, a new role that humbled us and made us feel incredibly grateful. I had been diagnosed with Stage IV ovarian cancer just six weeks after Lynn was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor.
That was years ago, and I partly credit our survival to the many ways a team of faithful caregivers surrounded us, not only with comfort food, but with a solid circle of prayers and other creative ways of blessing us. Like the tulips.
One beautiful autumn morning as I neared the end of a grueling year of chemo treatments, I opened our door to find three friends with shovels and a huge pail of tulip bulbs.
“We’ve come to plant these bulbs so you will have blossoms in springtime,” they said, and then went to work. Now, every spring when I see a few surviving tulips, I’m reminded of my Johnny Appleseed friends and so many other caregivers who planted seeds of hope that continue to bless us today.
Lord, thank you for showing us how you love people through people.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)