The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
And David said unto him, Fear not: for I will surely shew thee kindness for Jonathan thy father’s sake, and will restore thee all the land of Saul thy father; and thou shalt eat bread at my table continually.—2 SAMUEL 9:7 KJV
Like people today, Old Testament characters struggled in family relationships. David’s wife Michal turned against him. Her father, King Saul, hunted David like an animal, though the younger man ultimately triumphed and was crowned king.
Most rulers executed their opponents—and their families. But King David, in a major risk-taking move, not only returned Saul’s estate to his grandson Mephibosheth but also offered him financial support and a place at the king’s table.
David’s advisors probably thought him crazy. That is, unless they knew Mephibosheth’s father, Jonathan. In the midst of family turmoil, he and David were fast friends. Jonathan even offered to step down as Saul’s heir and support David’s kingship. When his father threatened to kill David, Jonathan risked his own life by defending his friend. Later Jonathan died with Saul on the battlefield.
David’s love for his late friend extended to Jonathan’s children. When he summoned Mephibosheth, the terrified man probably thought that David was planning to kill him. Instead, the king treated Mephibosheth like a son, welcoming him with open arms.
In our own difficult family situations, loyalty and kindness may also seem an unwise response. But God wants our actions to always reflect His readiness to bless amid heartache and hurt.
Father, when family forgiveness seems impossible, help me act in accordance with Your unconditional love.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)