The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
When I said, “My foot is slipping,” your love, O Lord, supported me.—PSALM 94:18 NIV
How many times have we fouled up when caring for someone? We try to do and say the right things, but inevitably we make mistakes.
It’s easy to focus on those mistakes, forgetting all the things that have gone well in our caregiving. We replay those errors over and over again in our minds. We give in to the “if only’s.” Though we can’t brush off mistakes as completely unimportant, we dare not let them take control of our lives.
Jesus’ disciples knew about making mistakes. They argued with Jesus over His upcoming death. They acted pridefully, shooed children away from the Lord, doubted, scattered when Jesus was arrested, and, in Peter’s case, denied Him. Still, Jesus continued to use the disciples to minister to others.
What can we do when we’ve stumbled in our effort to provide care? We can cry out to God—He’ll forgive the mistake, if only we’ll ask. Whatever He calls us to do, He’ll help us to do. He’ll always support us.
Gracious God, I thank You for forgiving my mistakes. Help me, Lord, to put the past behind me so that I can serve You in the present.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)