The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Then young women will dance and be glad, young men and old as well. I will turn their mourning into gladness; I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow.—JEREMIAH 31:13 (NIV)
Nearly every evening one summer, I watched a frail 80-something woman guide her husband to the edge of
the pool at the recreation center. She helped him grab the bar leading down to the water, and then parked his walker close by.
I often thought of how much energy it must take to get her husband ready for the pool: swimsuit, appropriate shoes, sunscreen and then getting the walker in and out of the car.
But it was the dance that impressed me the most. With music playing over a loud speaker, this couple lovingly held each other and glided through the water to the beat. I realized that while they couldn’t dance on a hard surface, the buoyancy of the water still gave them a chance to enjoy dancing.
I asked God, “Could I be that loving as a caregiver?” Would God give the strength I’d need to keep a romantic relationship going long into my elder years?
Lord, help us dance though life, enjoying whatever opportunities you present to us to live to the fullest.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)