The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
“For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?”—ESTHER 4:14 NIV
Maybe you weren’t the favored child in your family. Perhaps you weren’t the most gifted, and Mom loved a sibling more. But you got the role of caregiver, when push came to shove. Do you feel betrayed by your family, even by God?
No caregiver needs to feel that way. This may be a blessed opportunity rather than a curse. God places us just where we need to be and may have made us “for such a time as this.” In His hands, our dreaded chore of caregiving—taken up because others couldn’t or wouldn’t take on the task—may become a wonderful time of love and reconciliation.
God doesn’t push us into situations He won’t prepare us for. And He won’t just toss us into anything He doesn’t walk into with us. Our Lord knows just what this time is and what lies ahead. We cannot go astray when we walk with Him.
Lord, I want to be faithful, not bitter. May I hold firmly onto Your hand as we walk through caregiving together.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)