The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
The Lord helps the fallen and lifts those bent beneath their loads.—PSALM 145:14 (NLT)
With chronic illness, there are mountains of details to manage. Since my husband, Tim, became ill with a chronic pain condition, I spend hours each week completing forms, scheduling and rescheduling appointments, tending to emails and phone calls. Over the years I have learned a lot about how medical systems and insurance processes work. At this point I can pretty much do this stuff in my sleep.
Recently I developed a small issue with one of my hands. Nothing serious, but I needed to have my doctor look at it. My doctor decided to refer me to a specialist. After several weeks, I still hadn’t heard from the specialist’s office. Tracking down the referral and making the necessary phone calls felt insurmountable. I do this kind of thing for Tim all the time, but somehow doing it for myself left me feeling exhausted.
I don’t always recognize how tired I am until it comes time to take care of something for myself. In those moments, I’m learning how to do something restful like take a few breaths, go for a long walk and spend some time with God.
Lord, thank you for reminding me that you care about my needs.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)