The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?—LUKE 12:25-26 (NIV)
After the symptoms have subsided from several days of paranoia (like the belief I am going to be poisoned, or that people are out to get me) or a severe episode of anxiety that requires an extra dose of medication, I often wake up the next day very worried. I ask my husband, Jean-Claude, “Are we okay?”
“Yes,” he says.
“I mean, is everything okay? Are we sick, or in trouble?” I ask.
“No, we’re fine, I promise. Everything is good.”
These simple exchanges bring me comfort and calm my mind. I frequently need to test my reality against my husband’s to use as a compass. Jean-Claude never laughs or makes fun of me, or minimizes my need to have serious answers to reassure me. Even if my questioning goes on for several minutes, he shows me compassion and patience. My husband’s response is a reminder that we all deserve to be treated with love, especially when we need extra reassurance.
Dear God, please help me always practice compassion and love to others, in times of both calm and anxiety.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)