The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
The Lord is near those who who are discouraged; he saves those who have lost all hope. —PSALM 34:18 (GNT)
I was a bruised and battered mess that morning at the Cleveland Clinic. Recovering from craniofacial surgery to remove a large tumor, I gazed up to see my husband, Mark. I could tell by the way he stared into the distance that something was wrong. “It’s Muffin,” he said. “She somehow got out of Mom’s backyard and ran off, Roberta. They can’t find her anywhere.”
Muffin was our beloved shaggy, Benji-like mutt I’d rescued from a country flea market. I’d thought I’d return home, scoop her up from my in-laws’ house and have her stretch across the foot of my bed while I regained my strength. I needed that strength desperately with two additional surgeries awaiting me.
I vowed to sign out against medical advice and search for Muffin myself. Doing so, of course, would brand me a crazy fool, but in that moment, I didn’t care. I just knew Muffin would respond to my voice. I had to find her.
When I confided my plan to my animal-loving nurse, Joni, she begged me to give her a few minutes. In that snatch of time, she recruited other caregiving “dog people” who rallied to my side. Together, they convinced my physician to agree to an early discharge.
Recently, I saw the actual note Joni had placed on my chart, one that preserved my dignity for all time: “Patient experienced significant loss back home in West Virginia. Released with all needed supplies with family.”
Thank you, Lord, for caregivers who advocate for us.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)