So often I think of a legacy as something passed down. But having a son in the military has shown me that a legacy can also be passed up and around.
Living life with someone in the military carries its fair share of challenges, including way more than its fair share of stress and hardship. But along with the difficulties comes the knowledge that we’re part of something bigger than ourselves. Our pride in the soldier we care about should also translate into a sense of pride for ourselves.
Those who love a service member also share in the legacy of courage that is modeled by their loved one’s service and willingness to sacrifice.
1) The Spouses
Being married to someone in the military or the reserves requires an extra measure of patience. Those in the military often don’t have a choice about when and where they’re required to go. As I watch those spouses who support the calling of our military men and women, I get a lump of pride in my throat. Their commitment is quieter, but just as strong and just as important.
2) The Sometimes-Single Parent
In addition to being the spouse of military member, many are also frequent single parents. They are not only called on to do life without a spouse, but also without the partnership of a parent.
3) The Children
It’s tough growing up these days. And growing up as a military kid is even harder. These children know the pride of having a mom and/or dad serving our country, but they also deal with the fear of a parent at war.
4) The Parents
As a parent, we bring our children into this world and spend years trying to protect and nurture them. Then they choose to go to war. As proud as we are of their willingness to sacrifice and serve, it’s a scary time.
5) The Significant Other
I think the girlfriends and boyfriends of our military members often get overlooked. But I’ve watched the support they provide, and my hat is off to them. They support our men and women in the military with unselfish love.
6) The Siblings
I watched how difficult it was on our other two sons when our oldest joined the Marine Corps. They worried about him, prayed for him and worked hard to show their support. No list of heroes at home would be complete without the brothers and sisters of our military.
Next time you see a service man or woman in uniform, remember those that stand behind them. Say a quick prayer of thanksgiving for the legacy of courage they all share.
