The Importance of Being There
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to hear, slow to speak…—JAMES 1:19 (NIV)
When I was a new nurse practitioner in the VA Mental Health Clinic, my patient Barnes sat with his head in his hands. Finally, as he stood to leave, he gazed at the wall where all of my diplomas and certificates were hanging. “You know what would be neat?” he said. “If people would put something pretty on their walls, like an old-fashioned quilt.” Then he fixed his eyes on the tile floor and muttered, “Well, I guess that was pretty silly. I don’t know what possessed me to come up with such an idea.”
I didn’t either, but after Barnes left, I couldn’t get his suggestion out of my mind. Just about everyone has a quilt memory, I thought. Wonder if it might really help my patients open up?
In the log cabin I called home, I had the perfect quilt in mind. It was an antique Grandmother’s Flower Garden design in a palette of pink and green that my very own Mawmaw had hand-stitched. The next morning, I took down all of the so-called symbols of my success, pulled out the nails, and hung my grandmother’s quilt.
It was amazing. Veterans stared at the long-ago stitches, and in a few moments, they were transported to another world. The sights, sounds, and smells that quilt evoked prompted the telling of all sorts of tales. And as I listened, I discovered: There wasn’t a person alive I couldn’t bond with if I only knew their story.
Thank you, Father, for the stories that connect us to each other and to you.
I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.—2 John 1:12 (NIV)
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.—2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (NIV)
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.—Proverbs 19:8 (NIV)